Most people get married believing the myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for: companionship, intimacy, friendship, atc.
The truth is that marriage at the start is an empty box.
You must put something in before you can take anything out.
There is no love in marriage. Love is in people. And people put love in marriage.
There is no romance in marriage. You have to infuse it in to your marriage.
A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising and keeping the box full.
If you take out more then you put in, the box will be empty.
If you never put anything in it at all, the box will still be empty.
Marriage is work, everyday, and commitment, every day, and yes its like a box...you better put good things in it.
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